Adoption

Adoption

The January 2001 issue of Discover magazine was particularly

interesting and has provided the impetus for several recent

columns. I was about to file the magazine when I saw all the

commotion on TV about those adopted twins and the problem of

the birth mother wanting to regain her children. This reminded

me of an article in that Discover issue by Evan Eisenberg,

himself an adoptive parent. The article is titled “The Adoption

Paradox” and raises the question as to how the adoptive process

squares with prevailing notions of evolutionary theory. You

often read or hear that the prime objective of a species is to

perpetuate itself. On an individual basis, this means doing your

best to pass along your genes to a succeeding generation.

Adoption seems contradictory to this objective since it obviously

involves raising a child having no genetic ties to the parent(s).

Certainly, in the case of the human species, I understand the

desire to have children and it seems to me the bonding with an

adopted child can be as strong and as satisfying as with a child

related by birth. The article goes into considerable detail

examining the history and various aspects of adoption. What

really intrigued me were the examples cited in the article about

adoption, or its equivalent, in nonhuman species. Much of the

time, adoption is not a voluntary process but comes about

through deception by another member of the species. One

famous example is that of the cuckoo. The cuckoo is roundly

castigated for taking advantage of the absence of the parents

from the nests of birds of another species. The cuckoo lays an

egg in the nest along side the other eggs and the poor parent birds

come home not knowing they”ve been had. Of course, the larger

cuckoo hatchling gets the biggest share of the worms or whatever

and the smaller chicks suffer and may die of starvation or being

kicked out of the nest by the larger cuckoo.

I hadn”t realized that this practice was more widespread than the

cuckoo and also the cowbird. Bluebirds also engage in this

practice. However, they stick to their own kind and lay eggs in

other bluebirds” nests. The bluebird females of the invaded nests

don”t take kindly to this tactic if they detect the perpetrator in the

act. One study found that 15 percent of the bluebird nests in the

study contained unrelated bluebird eggs. Cliff swallows out

West not only lay eggs in their neighboring cliff swallows” nests

but even go to the trouble of carrying eggs from their own nest to

another one. The cliff swallows don”t put up any fuss over this

invasion of their nests because they probably have done the same

thing. For the swallows, the mixing of the eggs may be a form of

insurance. The swallows” nests are rather precariously located

where they can be battered by rockslides and storms, etc. If

you”re a swallow, it may make sense to spread your eggs as

widely as possible to assure that some of your progeny survive.

Now an egg is a pretty immobile object and doesn”t have any

choice where it ends up. On one of our New York TV stations

the nightly news features a segment on Wednesday called

“Wednesday”s Child”. A selected child is profiled in hopes that

he or she will be adopted. If adopted, the child had no real role

in selecting the adoptive parents. In the bird world, there are

some exceptions. These occur in cases where the birds live in

tightly packed colonies. In one study, some white stork chicks

were found to desert an overcrowded nest and wander around to

another nest with fewer and typically, younger, chicks. Although

the parents would object, they would eventually give in and

support the interloper. The chick would end up profiting since it

would be better fed than back in its own nest.

As mentioned, bluebird females fight the intrusion of an extra

mouth to feed pretty briskly if they know about it. Yet ducks and

geese tend to be more placid about one more kid to handle. It is

thought that the energy devoted to feeding is a factor. The

bluebird works like a dog to feed its nestlings. The author of the

article likened it to a human chopping wood day and night. On

the other hand, young ducks and geese learn to forage for

themselves pretty quickly after hatching, so it”s not that much of

a strain on the parents to have an extra youngster in the fold.

An oddity is the herring gull female. If she stumbles upon

another herring gull mother”s chick, she”s not averse to taking the

chick home with her and eating it. Once in awhile, however, if

she gets to the nest and the chick is still alive, clamped in her

beak, she might decide to start feeding it as one of her own. The

speculation is that she has a “senior moment” and forgets

whether the live chick was brought home for dinner or whether

the chick is one of her own that had strayed from the homestead

and she was just bringing it back. Not wanting to be accused of

eating her own chick, she adopts the item she”d planned for

dinner. I can certainly empathize with the senior moment bit.

Voluntary or involuntary adoption is not all that rare among

mammals and birds. When you see the pictures of seal breeding

grounds with thousands of seals all jammed together on this

island, you may wonder how the mothers keep track of their

offspring. In some cases, they don”t. Instead they”ll pick up

another pup to take care of and nurture. Sometimes, a female

who has not given birth at all will adopt a pup. In general,

mammals and birds don”t have too many offspring and they

spend a lot of time and effort feeding their kids.

With fish it”s a different story and adoption is quite common. A

fish may lay thousands or zillions of eggs and hope that at least a

few survive. If some other fish”s eggs get mixed in, it”s no big

deal and actually may be a good thing. The more eggs there are,

the less chance that its own eggs will get eaten. This dilution

effect can be enhanced. If the adopted fry are smaller and more

vulnerable, the predator will eat them first. In some cases, the

adopted fry are placed on the outer fringes of the brood, making

them more vulnerable to attack. Either way, the related fry have

a better chance of survival.

Even worms may adopt. There”s a species of marine worms that

lay their eggs in communal nurseries. The worm parents care for

their own eggs but a single, unattached worm may adopt any

neglected eggs. That worm isn”t polishing those eggs out of

compassion for the kids. Mating takes place in the nursery and

this dude is just hanging out looking for a mate. As Eisenberg

puts it, he”s using the nursery as a singles bar!

When it comes to our primate cousins, the desire to nurture is so

strong that some female apes will take in orphans or even resort

to kidnapping if an orphan is unavailable. On the other hand,

some males will adopt for more selfish reasons. A male

macaque may adopt an infant to shield himself from attack, while

a hamadryas baboon may adopt a young female over the protests

of the mother. The baboon then cares for the female until she

reaches puberty, only to become the first member of his harem.

Not much different than the worm in the preceding paragraph!

Eisenberg follows the course of his own adoptive experience and

in closing quotes one popular author as essentially bemoaning

the “waste of love” in raising unrelated children. This was in

reference primarily to the children of divorce and remarriage.

But Eisenberg closes with “I can”t speak for stepparents, but the

kind of adoption I know about seems not a waste but a magic

barrel of love, never exhausted, never perhaps explained.”

Allen F. Bortrum